It's through the negative, that we can see the positive.
It's through the mean, that we can see the kind.
It's through the darkness, that we can see the light.
It's through life, that we see God and his mighty plan for us.
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Wednesday, March 22, 2006
1:10 AM
Torn
It’s late, I’m tired and frustrated. Work has been piling up. I need a break already. Tomorrow is a long day for me. I anticipate another round of kopi.
I hate being caught in-between, not knowing what to do. Don’t you just hate it when you’re stuck with a few choices, not knowing which way to go and what to choose?
A friend of mine described a factual scenario to me yesterday (which sounded like my law tutorial) which I couldn’t answer: What would you do if you had a friend, A, and an even better friend, B, and you knew things about A that may be detrimental to B because of B’s relationship with A? Would you tell B the things you knew about A? Or would you just keep it to yourself?
What happens if the things you are going to tell B may not be good for their relationship with A? Would you still tell B the things about A at the risk of A and B’s relationship?
What if things became even more complicated and you happened to have a thing for B? Would you selfishly expose A in hopes that B would fall out with A and let you have a shot? Or would you keep things to yourself and let A make use of B?
If B is very happy with A now, would you bear to see B hurt now or in the long run? Or would you just cross your fingers and hope that in the long run, A would not hurt B?
Decisions, decisions. Tough stuff, but we have to make them everyday. Being caught in these situations involving relationships are never easy. Somehow or other, 1 person has to get hurt and you have the power to decide who. Would it be A, B or you?
